Black-and-White Thinking

In the past, our society used to be black and white about gay issues....  In the special police project, I believe the black side has gone more towards the gray middle-ground.  But the white side has been stalling.  I thought we'd gone past them earlier, for the most part, but issues have been surfacing....  For the past six months or more, I've been dealing with them....  At least they're understanding my responses and aren't fighting the same things over and over.  

Will write more separately.