Have now mailed a cheque to the head office of PFLAG Canada, in Ottawa. Their contact information was more convenient than that of the local office in my area....
In the future, I can be more sensitive and open-minded with homosexuals and bi-sexuals to make sure I'm not stepping on their toes without realizing it...? I can ask them for feedback, if they wish to give it...? [If not, okay.] Also, when there's a legal matter, it's always better to be calm.... I had tried to discuss something about my case in the angry phone message.... But a wise person, Aristotle, said "The law is reason, free from passion."
Am not meaning to say the matter with my former landlady was all my fault.... It wasn't brought to a conclusion in the legal system and there's probably nothing we can do about it? We might or might not ever have all the full answers...? I've had somewhat of an antagonistic attitude, up until now, and some people seemed to be antagonistic or hostile to me? But I feel positive now. I wrote in this blog earlier that I was willing to pass off the landlord/tenant matter as a learning experience and that's true...I also found out that some people in my church were gay.... So, right now I can "be the better person" by apologizing and making amends for my part in the problems. I'm sorry for getting angry with my landlady and for saying things inappropriately. I hope the donation to PFLAG will help someone else a little bit....
Maybe the people watching will accept this, and maybe not? But I feel good--much better than I used to! I think the special police project has maybe caused things to drag on longer than they otherwise would've.... But I sort of feel a sense of satisfaction or fulfillment, rather than feeling despair or hopelessness, which I sometimes used to. I feel that I'm on top of the matter rather than letting it get to me.... [And I can forgive myself also.]
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Have started off trying to help the adjudicator feel better and I don't know if I did or not, but I've made myself feel better. And I don't want to stir the pot of the landlord/tenant matter any more....
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