In this past lockdown, we've been discussing some things privately again.... And in September 2017, I wrote some posts in this blog about the complainant in the criminal matters, who used to be an adjudicator with the former Ontario Rental Housing Tribunal.... I said that he'd had a conflict of interest in my Landlord/Tenant matter.... He was an adjudicator in good standing, yes. And the Tribunal had no rules which involved his conflict of interest.... But he was an independent "court agent," who didn't belong to any professional association as far as I know, and he had no professional standards to follow--unlike the lawyers and paralegals who practise law in Ontario.... So, he seemed to be unaware that he had a conflict and that he should've removed himself from my case--even though there were other adjudicators already working on my case after I filed the first review request....
Considering that the complaint had the conflict and didn't recognize or didn't admit it, it was plausible that he had certain views about my personal letters and the joke sexual letter.... It seemed to him that I was using the personal letters and also the joke letter to petition him about the Landlord/Tenant matter.... And when I had mentioned in a letter that I had an interest in going to law school--it was just an item of interest--he saw it as a threat against him and/or my landlady.... Okay, so I can see his point of view.... He felt harassed and distressed, and he was also married at the time--which I didn't know....
On my side, I had misunderstandings about his personal and flirty comments which he'd made towards me earlier...and I'd asked him in a letter if he was married and he didn't say he was.... It was a very complicated situation. I acknowledge that I made mistakes--and I've acknowledged it in the past.... Maybe I have a little more understanding now.... [And as a married man, the complainant never wanted any personal letters from me.... He had other purposes for his flirting, which people said later that he flirted a lot with others....]
There seems to be a group of police who are still going around talking to people who know me about my joke sexual letter. They're stirring up problems.... Not all the parties in the police project have received the same information, unfortunately, and maybe we can't always blame them for their actions...? [Although we want to get things resolved as soon as possible....]
Will write some more separately. [I may or may not finish it today--have limited computer time.]
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